I have checked mempool site its self and only says its waiting for it to appear which means i guess it hasn't made it to the chain... ?
besides pushing a raw on the various sites, is there another way to submit this ?
I don't know which site that shows "
waiting to appear" so I have no idea, usually there'll be a result or none.
For broadcasting transactions, every site has a Bitcoin node on its backend so it's all basically the same as
sendrawtransaction command.