Have you checked your attitude towards money lately? What is "your dream"? bigger home, a bigger car, private schools, branded drink, gold?...
Money for for things that are important in life: you family, your people, health, well being, ... Do not be afraid to spend the money on your people when they really need it, but be wary of spending it on stupid things and if you think your car and your clothes are important, you may want to start thinking if you have any significant goal in life and where does it get you in the next 10 years.
Nowadays money is very important for the people. without it is like your life is nothing, why Do I say so? because you cant have things you want in life by just dreaming it, yes we have quotation money cant buy happiness but the money will help us to achieve happiness that we desire. I agree that money is for important thing especially for the essential needs to have better living. What we need is to know how to handle all the money that we have, where to spend it, is it beneficial or not. Way back 2021 when I hold huge money I don't know how to handle it. I spent it in casino playing poker games and others vises. But when I lost everything that when I only realized that I should have save it for my future. In addition, at some point in life its okay to spend it on the things we want like bigger car or home specially if its for our safety and it can help our life more easier. Judgement will always be on our surroundings but what important is we know how to spend our own money and where to use it without stepping other people lives.