This was the regret my dad was saying,when he was young, he had the opportunity to travel abroad to study in the university with his cousins, they won very big from gambling. His cousins told him that they are using their own share of the money to go study abroad that my dad should join them but he refused. He said that let them go first that he will go later,but to him he wanted to stay behind and continue his gambling activities but after some years, things turn out bad for him and he couldn't have the money to travel anymore. The conditions of things in the country got worst,he got married to my mom. This was how he missed his opportunity to travel abroad to secure a better life,his cousins never came back home as they became citizens of that country.