i open the backup with electrum wallet and show me the addreses and balance, but ask me for password when i want sned btc
That sounds weird to me. As far as I know, if your wallet is encrypted with a password you won't be able to open it without the password. If you are able to open the wallet without a password, then it's not encrypted, and you should be able to send without a password. The only way you would be able to open a wallet without a password and not be able to send funds from that wallet is if an external signer is needed, such as a hardware wallet. A watch-only wallet will not allow you to send, so it won't ask for a password either.
Sorry if I'm missing something, but again I don't know of a scenario that would lead to the issue you've described.