Wow
I was first moved with the fact that you had over $165k in your betting account and I was really mad that what the f*ck are you doing with such amount of money in your betting  aaccount ? I'm so sorry for your loss mate but I really don't think it will be possible for stake or any other casino to share responsibility of the loss with you because you made all the mistake to have clicked on the link and you don't expect the casino to partake in fixing a mistake causes by you exoevt they just wanted to be fair with you.
This is another wake up call for everyone to stay very active in protecting their accounts and checking eveey links thoroughly before clicking non them.