Have you checked your attitude towards money lately? What is "your dream"? bigger home, a bigger car, private schools, branded drink, gold?...
Money for for things that are important in life: you family, your people, health, well being, ... Do not be afraid to spend the money on your people when they really need it, but be wary of spending it on stupid things and if you think your car and your clothes are important, you may want to start thinking if you have any significant goal in life and where does it get you in the next 10 years.
Common sense, family is the reason why we go through all the shits in life we going through just to make sure we can afford them a better life and anything outside that is secondary.
There's a popular adage among my countrymen tht says "we leave home to take care of home", what this means is that the reason why we leave our homes in search of greener pastures outside is so that we can be to take good care of our family and give them a better life.
Lavishly spending money on luxuries and fantasies while family suffering back home is just another height of insanity and regret is the end there of. Because the best investment in life is lives investment others are just complementary.