Have you checked your attitude towards money lately? What is "your dream"? bigger home, a bigger car, private schools, branded drink, gold?...
Money for for things that are important in life: you family, your people, health, well being, ... Do not be afraid to spend the money on your people when they really need it, but be wary of spending it on stupid things and if you think your car and your clothes are important, you may want to start thinking if you have any significant goal in life and where does it get you in the next 10 years.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, It's important to prioritize what truly matters in life, such as family, health, and well-being, when it comes to spending money. While material possessions can bring temporary happiness, true fulfillment comes from pursuing meaningful goals and investing in experiences that bring long-term satisfaction. It's important to reflect on your values and goals in order to align your financial decisions with what truly matters to you.