Have you checked your attitude towards money lately? What is "your dream"? bigger home, a bigger car, private schools, branded drink, gold?...
Money for for things that are important in life: you family, your people, health, well being, ... Do not be afraid to spend the money on your people when they really need it, but be wary of spending it on stupid things and if you think your car and your clothes are important, you may want to start thinking if you have any significant goal in life and where does it get you in the next 10 years.
Money is definitely for the important things. Because people have different views and preferences, It’s now left to the Individual on what he defines and sees as important to acquire with money.
There are people that when they leave their parents bosom and finally go off on their own, will not really care about their parents anymore. They would rather spend on themselves buying luxury and sometimes irrelevant items.
I think people have the right to buy whatever they deem fit with their money and sometimes I might think their choices to be wasteful and stupid, I’ll quickly remind myself that it’s their money and not mine.
I have my own personal opinion of what’s important to spend money on and it doesn’t include the latest model of the Mercedes or known branded designers clothing. I love the good things of life just like the next person but I would rather spend my money and time on people.