I am not doubting you in anyway but this sound like a friction; how do you think of a woman contacting you without having a business deal before or even being link to someone that already established. You and I knows how it for you or anyone else to send you money or bitcoin without an escrow.
Yes, I think it begs the question of how he got that woman's contract. And how come there is a deal between them where the op didn't mention that the woman was a relative or an office colleague or he knew otherwise. But I appreciate it when someone gets something good out of bitcoin so I appreciate the op's point that he got something good out of bitcoin. But I'm still not clear on the op's story about his relationship with the woman and how he deal with her