I am not doubting you in anyway but this sound like a fiction; how do you think of a woman contacting you without having a business deal before or even being link to someone that already established. You and I knows how it's for you or anyone else here to send you money or bitcoin without an escrow.
I believe this should be the case(fiction) because you cannot simply meet a random individual, explain your desire for bitcoin, and expect them to arrange it for you without first speaking about it or engaging in business with them. Only when such events have occurred between the two of you will you be approached for assistance in buying bitcoin. Not by rushing straight to search for bitcoin vendors