Have you checked your attitude towards money lately? What is "your dream"? bigger home, a bigger car, private schools, branded drink, gold?...
Money for for things that are important in life: you family, your people, health, well being, ... Do not be afraid to spend the money on your people when they really need it, but be wary of spending it on stupid things and if you think your car and your clothes are important, you may want to start thinking if you have any significant goal in life and where does it get you in the next 10 years.
yeah off course that money is the important things to cover necessary of my life. i have a dream to buy house with my primary income and take more saving from my side income in this forum, joining campaign and etc. I should do this because i have to send some money to my parents in my hometown beside covering my own necessary.