If you continue to think that way, losing yourself so to say because of the entrapment of female anatomy, then you're more likely to get into trouble than out of it.

This part captures an experience I had in 2021. Let me share that with you. I was teaching someone about Bitcoin and trading. When I got to wallet security and safety, I drummed it into my student NEVER to reveal his passphrase or password to anyone; not even to me. I included myself in it. Lecture continued for the rest of that day.

Two days later, while dwelling on a different topic, I asked him to send me his passphrase that I wanted to check for something. He refused, reminding me of what I told him. I pushed further and told him to remember I was different since I was the one teaching him. That broke his defense. He released his passphrase to me. BTW, it was an unused empty wallet for practice. I laughed him to scorn and reminded him how he should never give it out. He felt sorry for himself. I believe my shared experience answers that part of your question now.

The only time one can give that out should be in one's will.