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Re: Cygan abuses DT - Proof!
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John Abraham
on 04/04/2023, 18:04:49 UTC
PS, without realising it, you're getting involved in drama  Cheesy
Ah, Do you think so? I think you are right. I am don't know if anyone already watching me with evil eyes.

Firstly if someone is being aggressive, it's best not to take it personally. It's usually more about them being angry or annoyed than it is about you. It's also not a good look for that user. Strong criticism shouldn't need to be aggressive, it only makes it less constructive. Secondly being questioned is about accountability. If you don't like accountability, you probably shouldn't be on DT, because it would make members un-accountable.
I don't have to take anything personally. Sometimes I feel helpless when I try to put myself in someone's position. When people talk, they seem to have personal issues with the person. Imagine a forum member violated forum rules, and you reported it. Your responsibility should end here. But how will it look if you keep asking moderators to handle this report and keep trying to get their attention over and over even though they most likely already saw the report? If moderators choose to give them another chance, why are you bothering them by asking for a ban? What is your benefit? It looks like the guy is in a good position, and you have to kick him out to take his position. I mean, why? You both can be in a good position.

I heard a story. An office boss gave 20 balloons with 20 pins to his 20 employees. Told them whoever could keep their balloon intact for the next 5 minutes will get a salary increase. Everyone started bursting into other balloons, so they didn't get a salary increase. In the end, No one was able to keep their balloon intact. The boss said, why didn't you guys keep all the balloons intact so everyone could get a salary increase?

I was unfamiliar with this part of this forum where people discuss others.

I won't explain to anyone why I added whom and why it makes sense to me. I want to see the most accurate feedback
You do realize you've just explained why you added users, right? Cheesy The reason is totally fine in my book Smiley

Oh, Yeah. I did it already.