Regarding the balance between socialization and financial responsibility. I think This is a personal choice and comes down to individual values and priorities. While some may see such gatherings as a waste of money and time, others may see them as a way to build and maintain social relationships, which are just as important for personal well-being.

One's financial situation and responsibilities to family before engaging in costly activities. However, the occasional treat and socializing with friends can also benefit your mental health and can provide a break from your daily routine.

It is up to the individual to determine whether or not such a meeting is worthwhile as even if it is carried out the cost may vary depending on location and personal preference.