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Board Beginners & Help
Re: Set your mind on your goals and nothing else
by
lalabotax
on 08/04/2023, 21:55:22 UTC
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I don't know why and now they are asking for my help, I have to do it since they are my family, and even my friends are asking for help, would you help your discouraging friends if you are in my shoe? They were my friends, but not anymore, I believe friends should be supportive of each other, am I wrong.
Indeed, sometimes there are conditions like this, where family or friends who are supposed to provide support for those of us who are down actually making things worse, blame us, and also berate us for our condition at certain times. And this, to be honest, often happens when we are in trouble, they leave, while they will come again when we are successful. And they seem to be people who have a big contribution to our success. I really understand your feelings, feelings of disappointment and hatred, but on the other hand, they are your family. I think it's only natural if you are angry and don't want to help them, especially those who claim to be friends. Ignore it. But if it's family, help naturally, because it's not certain that they will always remember or thank us for our help.