of course with a high lifestyle it will make life narrower, will make your time wasted and your finances will be drained by a high lifestyle. following the lifestyle will be fatal in terms of financial and social life. people will think negatively with a life that is too much style
I don't think all of them are like that mate, you can't judge and equate all lifestyles that are not good. Because what everyone in this world uses is based on the abilities they each have. Now we take an example of the lifestyle of famous rich people like Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos and also some others, I think they like to wear luxury and expensive things.
But that is based on the abilities they have, so this should not be confused with everyone who basically also wants a luxurious lifestyle, but everyone will definitely adapt himself to the abilities he has. Because it would be ridiculous and crazy if someone was willing to go hungry just because he was forced to follow an excessive lifestyle. So I think everyone will always adjust this for himself and will not be judged negatively by others because we only follow a lifestyle that suits our own needs and abilities.
As I said before in other comments, all my friends are rich enough to afford these costly gatherings so you point of living based on the abilities is not a problem for them. Your example of the super rich people like Elon Musk, they tend to wear luxury and expensive things will be quite normal in real life. But I think you really missed my point here. The thread is not actually about whether you can afford a certain lifestyle but choosing a certain lifestyple is really worth it. Back to my friends' situation, this morning one of them sent me a screenshot of his most recent medical check report, saying that a couple of organs function starts going bad such as high blood pressure due to too much drinking. Now we look at the topic again, although my friends can afford the lifestyle, is it really worth living this way ? Absolutely not, their health is being damaged by too much alchohol. Time wasted on drinking ? Needless to say.