That's not a WabiSabi coinjoin

Three pages ago your excuse was that output was the whale, so it's apparently fine that user gets zero privacy. Now your excuse is it's not a coinjoin at all? Might want to decide which bullshit you are going to stick with.

Your wallet doesn't charge you a fee, a coordinator charges a fee. You can choose any coordinator you want in order to make sure you pay the most competitive price on the market.
I do. I choose JoinMarket or Whirlpool, so my fee isn't directly funding mass surveillance of the blockchain.