I was really confused when I read the OP's point of view, why let the material thing enter the emotion. Perhaps I was born and raised in an environment where money or material things are only things to help people develop, but there are spiritual issues in the family, and marital love is always considered a question. where money or power only messes it up. I know a country Bhutan, and their popularity you can find out for yourself and re-examine what the meaning of your life is with countless things in front of us.