Everyone should be given chance to explain themselves so I asking @blackened515, @LordHermes and @omgitsmehehe to post here to explain the situation here and will see how the community sees this.
Pick your answer about addresses connections:
A. We're family, he's my brother, sister, mother, father, grand father, grand mother etc so we work in this forum to fulfill our needs.
B. So he's my friend and I know him in real life, I invite him in this forum and we had few exchanges because we're live in a same country.
C. We're a using same local exchange, that's why it's belong to a same exchange.
Pick your answer about merit exchanges:
A. We have a discussion in our local board to support each other.
B. He asked me to review his post.