keep on posting valuable topic that will help others
Mate it's quite ironic because in 30 seconds of skimming, I couldn't see a single valuable post from you. Maybe try to apply your advice to yourself before telling people how to do it.

Maybe OP has to change the title to How I am going to Cope in this Forum or What I'm Going to do how to Improve he should start with himself, we are good at advising others, and yet we are lost on how to apply that advice, he is talking about value but like you, I have not seen value on 90% of his posts.
People should stop giving advice if they cannot give a receipt or prove that they applied it to themselves, it's like a blind leading a blind.