1: having expensive btc transaction fees makes me stronger to hold on to btc because I don't want to waste my money on expensive transaction fees.
That's is to say if the fee gets to normal you won't have good reason of hodling. Now that the fee is high I don't think you are hodling but waiting for it to come to normal price. If you have been hodling the high transaction fee shouldn't be a reason to make you stronger. What is suppose to make you to be stronger to hodl should be because you believe in bitcoin and because you know what you want from bitcoin.