Use
Blockchair Insert your address or transaction hash to use and trace your transaction. There will be an estimated block confirmation time and your number on the waiting list. The time might not be accurate; it all depends on how fast the transaction will be after that time.
OP can use blockchair.com explorer to check his pending transaction. That explorer has Priority information for pending transactions. The priority of a transaction will change with mempool changes.
OP can check more details with that transaction fee rate and fee rates of pending transactions in Mempool.
https://jochen-hoenicke.de/queue/#BTC%20(default%20mempool),24h,weight