That is right prioritize first your family and do not go with the flow on the expenses that your friends are doing. It is not practical do waste money on unimportant lifestyle. We need to prioritize first your spending and if you have extra you can set budget for social gatherings. If your friends really wanting to go out with you, try to find much cheaper alternatives with your friends, you can try a potluck dinner instead of going out to eat. It would depend on you on how much are you willing to spend on such gatherings. It is important to set a budget and prioritize first your family's daily needs.
It's true and more mature. I think in terms of maintaining a balance between social needs and financial obligations. Anyone here, I think, basic needs such as food, clothing, housing and family health are the No. 1 priority scale that must be met and prioritized. For the idea you say of looking for a cheaper alternative it's a good idea to strike a balance between meeting daily needs and enjoying social gatherings.