I believe people don't mind sharing KYC.
The problem for "KYC" are on Type 3 or Type 4 for people who are living in a third country. I also the one who are not really want to put "KYC", why? I only small gambler and chasing bonus from KYC ? nope thanks.
That's why, I chasing a casino who can withdraw with a high limit.
I agree with you. The player should depend as little as possible on the policies of the state. So the withdrawal threshold in the absence of KYC is a very important factor. I also try to choose those online casinos where this threshold is high enough, and withdrawal requests are processed promptly.