...mutual attraction between women and men who love each other...
just like the beast and the beauty... so romantics, omg, I feel jealous now!
...we built our finances together from scratch...
boomer get land for free and you gotta pay for land, I never work hard for money. I honestly think you are impressive to start from scratch... because everybody I know cheat money in life, you are amazing, you work hard from scratch. No pun intended. Yup you can proudly call me loser or cheater or clown I'm perfectly fine, I know very well how ugly is this world.

...it's confusing as both are the same to me...
Well... it is uneasy to me when you try to equate both of them, for me fiat is cheating money, bitcoin is cheating too, I never have a preference, I love bitcoin due to I'm the house in bitcoin, which is unlike in fiat, in fiat federal reserve is the house, dollar is the property rights of the US government! To make thing clearer. House always win, not work hard.
...did I pick your query right?...
spot on
...my parents of a girl check you whole background like even...
here in California, landlord would have to shortlist the tenants every single year, they need every tenant to have solid, stable paycheck job, high paying wage, future proof job, zero criminal record, good credit rating record, good social score, also your banking account balance, kyc of the tenant, guarantor. The marriage market is as absurd as the rental market.

...that's some backward thoughts (no offense)...
That is okey, listen well, it is perfectly okey to kill people, it is the jungle's laws, kill or be killed, very backward thoughts indeed. I feel sad for gen Z, they are living in a killer society.

...so cheer up,
I think I would take it as a gesture. cheer.
...important factor in any relationship...
by now I'm seeing a lot of lonely girls would need shelther, they need money from man, particularly weak man, girls asking ex-bf for some small loan, to pay their outstanding loan, I hope this is not a banned discussion. I know it is highly sensitive topic, second to infidelity, someone head would be rolling.

...I can say finances will be the thing decides everything...
finance... yup and cheating money... born rich, and rich get richer, poor get poorer and screwed, do not corrupt the kids with the malpractice the old boomers do in life, they all deserve a healthy and fair and friendly relationship with their childhood friends lmao.