Agree with what you're saying although at the end of the day a marriage is so much more than what we have come up with. Aside from being an adult, you have responsibilities and other things that need to be considered in making decisions as the head of the family. Finances are not guaranteed, but we must be realistic in facing life's challenges and be able to survive not only for our family but also be able to maintain social conditions in society. And yes, you are right, at least marry someone who works hard, in other words, for himself he is able to fulfill his sense of duty, especially if he has the courage to marry. Believe it or not, in this world there is no such thing as an expert in marriage, but everyone knows, no matter how long one has been married, the fact is that no one is really called an expert or expert in the field of marriage.