Why is it that scammers often take refuge in religious proclamations when exposed?  Insha'allah you're are telling the truth, but I'm sorry to say that when I first saw this post I suspected you were lying.  Then notscam420 posted some very compelling circumstantial evidence, and so did lovesmayfamilis.  If you'll notice neither of those members are in my trust inclusions because I often think they are over zealous in their search for cheaters, and I tend to be very cautious and distrusting of their reports.  In this case, however I think they might be on to something. 

The way you reacted to the pumpkin carving accusation compared to the way you're reacting here are very different, almost polar opposites.  From one extreme to the other, but both reactions point to guilt.  I don't see any compelling evidence to justify a red-tag just yet, but I'm starting to believe you deserve one.