OP, you have a legitimate point that there are a lot of unnecessarily rude and aggressive people on these boards. There are also a lot of racists, anti-semites, and woman haters.
To which I reply: no big deal.
The internet always brings out the cowards. This message board is no different.
I would encourage you not to conflate bitcoin's adaptability with that of some of the aggressive doofusses on here.
That said, there are also intelligent and well reasoned posters on this board.
I say, maybe consider that instead of starting a war with the internet machos, you might be better served by ignoring them.