There is an opinion that the more money you spend, the more you get in return, it is interesting to find out who really works in this direction. I spend enough money, but I have a fixed income, therefore I will not be able to get more. I don't have rich relatives, and I don't expect an inheritance either. I want to get rich, not to deny myself, but I have to save on everything. Who really faced big expenses and received even more? How does it work, maybe I don't understand the essence of it correctly?
It just depends on how you are, how does your job pay you, or maybe what's your relatives or families doing in order to have some big expenses. Because if you do some big expenses, then that means you have either sufficient income to afford those expenses or having rich relatives(with what you said earlier, you don't have it). You can't just have big expenses without having either of those. If you have fixed income, unless you do some saving to afford to buy big stuff in the future, it's difficult to afford those things.