I mentioned somewhere that my closest friend has been unemployed for over a year due to the devastating collapse of his line of business and and his wife's sickness. Last time we met was a month ago and he was depressed in certain ways which worried me a lot. I called him to see if he was fine last Sunday and he told me he was looking for jobs and the next day he would go to several interviews. I was glad to hear that. Last night I called to follow up and he said the interviews were not going well. I aksed why. He told me that nowadays most companies are not doing well, barely making even actually. The interviewers would just say the job is not entitled to any insurance or benefits, what they can offer is a very low base salary and the commission part would be subject to how many sales the employee can bring to their company. My friend was not willing to take any of them because he has a family to feed and his wife's condition is unstable which could need a lot of money for surgery at any time. I understand him and am trying my best to help him find a high-pay job.
My friend's story sends me a signal: no matter how much I earn right now, try to keep my job and souce of income stable. I am also a family man and have responsibilities. Anything bad can also happen to me so I have to be prepared to the unforseen problems, although I am doing fine now. Make hay while the sun shines. If you have any advice for my friend, please let me know. Thank you.
I applaud you for being a great friend and helping your bro out there in ways that you can, even if it's just listening to his problem and helping him actually land a good-paying job, but at the same time given the economic situation I would say that it's going to be really hard for you guys to find a job that he's looking for. What I could suggest is looking for other forms of employment like a side-hustle, or financing his dead business back to operation and use the profits they will yield in time to actually support and fund an emergency savings account for his wife, since that's his main concern right now. In any case, if you do guys were able to find a high-paying job I would seriously congratulate you, but just because there's little to none of this around doesn't necessarily mean that your friend has no options. Time to look inward and be very curious this time.