The forum is big enough to accommodate everyone here so since you desire to be like other members whom you have seen doing very well, feel free to follow there thread, and engage your self more on doing a research when your not in the forum I believe this will help you to understand the secret behind their success better.
Op you also need to understand that no one became better here in a day rather it took some members weeks, months and some years. I hope you are ready to also sacrifice your time and energy to keep trying even when you feel your aren't getting it right? do not forget to also preview your write up before posting as some members have advised you  so that you don't go off point.