People addicted to gambling will not care about their surroundings because they only think about gambling and gambling. That made them even more alone in gambling with no one to communicate with to help them get out of gambling because he did not think about quitting gambling even though he had won several times.
When someone experiences defeat, they tend to get angry and vent their anger on the things around them. And their anger is often carried away for some time and they have difficulty suppressing it. We are really lucky if we don't experience gambling addiction because we can still enjoy gambling as entertainment and we can still enjoy life.
Exactly like what I said before, they wouldn't care about the surroundings. And I think they will show changes in behavior as a result of their addiction, so if we want and can, we can help them get out of that circle, especially if it is our family. I really understand, when we advise an addict then we will receive a reply that if we are easily offended, we will be very offended. But we also have to understand that what they do is not from themselves but from the influence of the addiction they experience. However if we are able, we should try to help them.
The key here is how his family can see a change in that person so that they can immediately approach him personally and ask about the problem if they know there is a striking change. But the problem is that not all families can pay attention to their family members. And even many families tend not to know if there is a change from one of the family members.
Maybe by approaching him personally and asking for the change, a gambling addict can open up and say the truth so that his family members can immediately give advice and help him. This needs openness and wanting to pay attention to each other from each family member.
That is why we must have a good relationship with our family, and we must also be sensitive to the environment around us, at least within our own family environment. I think that changes in attitude and behavior will definitely occur, whether it's obvious or just small signs, if we are sensitive to the circumstances around us, we will know immediately what is happening and that is our opportunity to make an approach before everything becomes a bigger problem.
But indeed sometimes now we are not sensitive even to ourselves, sometimes we are indifferent to the environment around us because we feel we also have problems and no one else helps.