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Re: How being open to ideas and comments help you learn?
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ultrloa
on 22/06/2023, 10:29:18 UTC
Surround yourself with people who criticize you. You will learn most from them. They will always push you with their negativity. Don't avoid people who always find a way to criticize you, they are kind of free bug testers working for you.
One is not always motivated through criticism. At times we do not need to be criticized to do more. We just need a simple couragement. Be it constructive or destructive criticism, everything has its time when it is time for you to be praised or encouraged you need the encouragement or praises and when it is time to be criticized you need the criticism. Constant and continuous criticism will however infusion in you some antagonistic spirit and will make you to achieve your goals in a more desperate away.

Not good to get always criticized since it cam drain out our energy since we would think about that we don't do any good on the careers we do. But you should also seek the reason why people criticize you since from this maybe you will get an idea about what are the things you need to fix and enhance so that you can do more better then next time you would earn praises  coming from your colleague's. We need to work more to enhance our knowledge on something we are interested to broad up our knowledge and that can help us gain more profit in future.

It should be a sort of balanced thing. You get criticized when necessary and you get praised when necessary. These two will form a moving force that will propel you to greatness. If you are always being praised, it will also give a sense of wrong judgement and will not motivate you to do your best.  You will definitely think you are the best and therefore you have arrived.
That can also be said for criticism. When you are overly and unduly critisized, you will tend to lose your confidence and self esteem.

Self evaluation too is another thing one needs to do regularly to know how far they have gone. When one checks their activities and people's reaction and response to  what they have down so far it enables them to have a rethink of either putting more efforts to mprove on whatever they are lacking or continue with the good work they have been doing.

One should be able to draw strength from criticisms to make corrections and also take accolades for good work done so as to do more. Only then there would be a balanced equation from bother end.

So important to have self evaluation on the information we receive coming from multiple sources since it can put us on closest thing that can help us on any matter especially on investment decisions we want to take. It also good for us if we are open to all ideas either its sounds bad or good since we may know the flaws and good thing on what we are searching for.
Its not bad to get criticize for mistakes done since its more important that we take action to improve.