So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Both parties have to be able to contribute in a marriage for it to work out perfectly. You shouldn't expect only the husband or the wife to take charge of the chores or breadwinning for the family. This means until the both of you have a source of income, it doesn't matter how small it is but the both of you have to be bringing something to the table. If that isn't possible then you shoudn't be getting married. Marriage is not a get away card from poverty or shame from the society judging you that you're not married. You should have some sense of assurance in your marriage that if you were to fall sick or something happens to you that your spouse can handle the family until you ar able to stand back on your fit. I don't believe in early marriages, I believe we should allow ourselves to experience the world before we tie the knot. This is because when we get married, we should be loyal to our spouses but those who are still having a fantasy can't be loyal and this leads to cheating. The financial ability of the man or woman should be considered and not just marrying blindly because of love. Those that have done this in the past has regretted making such big decisions of their life based on just love and now they can't be able to afford a comfortable meal.