No, that's just the sexual politics you've been brought up with.

If you were a dude hunting sabre-tooth tiger and you felt the feelings you are having now you would act on them and avoid being eaten by some large nasty creature.  That's how we managed to survive and evolve.

Emotional intelligence has nothing to do with being a man or a woman.  Listen and acknowledge what your instinct is telling you and add it to the mix when decision making: if it helps, this is the sort of advice survivalists, criminologists, even the military etc provide for situations when 'data' is insufficient.