At first I thought is power than anything, later on I said it's should be economic resources, then I realizes is money. I will give a brief poem here! The breeze blew and stake moistures and when it blew hales, it was just the breeze moving while the moistures is running away with fears.
The mist of human fears is control by what is next to their breath. Money has power than anything, money makes one feels secure, alive and superior. When money leaves we felt life is gone, we feel dead, we feel empty, we feel hopeless.
Currently my country government has turn humans to museum, moving without no direction, helpless and monuments because for over 3 months now the government has seized to release money in circulation, banks refused to fix money in ATM's, no canter payment.
Everyone is helpless, no money no good food, no transportation, no job, no love, no smiles, no good health.
Money drives away every feelings that makes life better. Money is truly powerful
When I was younger, like 20-25 years old, the lack of money wasn't a problem for me. NO, I didn't feel dead, empty or hopeless, I was happy, with or without money. But when you are married, have to feed your kids and stuff, you won't be happy without money. So, I'm deeply sorry about the economic situation in your country, and I wish you to overcome all the difficulties. A piece of advice from someone who lived in poverty even with wife and little kids: to not make things even worse, do not borrow. You can accept help from your friends and relatives, but don't borrow, live with what you have at the moment.
There are several conditions that make the difference in this case.
Because basically when you are single, the center of our thoughts is only for ourselves without paying attention to other things, so we feel free regardless of whether we have money or not, but when we already have a family or partner, in this case, maybe children, then it is indeed dependent. obviously it will be felt in this condition because if we are men then we will have more responsibility to provide the best for our small family so we need to think further and try to maximize what we do so that it can produce and become more income for us to continue life as a form of our responsibility as head of the family.
Don't really know what kind of problems are faced in the country @Godlovesyou but seeing the conditions it seems a little not okay and it's true as you said in this case survival is really needed but don't try anything with a loan because that will make the condition worse.