Because I believe that if anyone knows a way to change their life around, they won't tell anyone, they will enjoy the moments and pray it last forever.
you make it sound very real, I on the other hand do not think this phylosophy is common to everyone, they're people who would painstakingly let people into their space and teach them what the know, you can say I'd not show you the entire strategy I use, now that's real and good for me, I can't give you water to drink, teach you how to put it in your mouth and still teach you how to swallow, they're things you have to figure out yourself.