trust no one this space, everyone tends to put themselves first and that's okay, I'm my number one priority.
Not just in this space but everywhere and as a whole cyberspace.
If the lady's so eager to help, let her share the platform with you, you make your research too to be sure you're not been mislead even though your story says so already.
If a stranger lady comes to suggest platforms that are unknown, don't be sure about that and even if it sounds and looks like a legit platform. Check out the platform itself because it could be a phishing platform that just copied the official ones.
Be careful, women are not an exemption of scamming activities this days.
Everyone is a target, and scammers don't choose what they will victimize and don't be gullible as scammers comes in all forms.