What you need to know is to simply not take this community forum too seriously. Just like how you talk to other people on some social media group — as long as you follow the rules by not spamming and scamming and all that, you're good to go.
This has been the mindset of many newbies and including myself when I was new. Many see here as a company or higher institution or so. But later they will realise that this is a forum of discussion and also like other social media.
I wonder who ever created a facebook account and started asking people to help them grow on facebook.
They have to work their way out by engaging more with friends and that is exactly what happens here in the forum. For you to have a good engagement, you should be able to have a good knowledge of bitcoin because this is a bitcoin forum and bitcoin is the bone of context here.