I wanted to do for ONCE something on my own and without always asking him for the money.

I COULD ask him but I dont WANT to ask him. Try being a stay at home wife for 5 years always asking for money for everything and everything. If I get the money from him, he will start pushing himself involved, giving me advice that annoy me and overall, this is MY thing.

He WILL pay off the loan if I screw up. It wont have an impact on our financies. This is about a principle.


Besides I keep secrets from my husband anyway