That is basically a complete dodge of the question. Essentially you are saying "oh no that's not what we're saying" but then you fail to explain how you propose these things would get funded. The bottom line is we all know that everyone talks a big generous talk but when it comes down to it, no one is going to voluntarily pay to support many of the things they use and depend upon every day unless they ARE forced to. People are cheap bastards.
The error in your thinking is that you are expecting an anarchist society to look like society today, just without the government. It won't.
I can't tell you how a road from A to B would be built, because it would be an organic process. Who wants it? Who needs it? Who is willing to design it? To build it? To contribute to it?