There will be differences in every individual, of course. Maybe you have more of a female brain than you realize.

Possibly true and I don't consider that an insult, but I doubt it. I am extremely right-handed and test higher in areas where you would expect a male to test higher. My best class in Naval Nuclear Power School was physics.
My main skill is language. I was the first person to identify TERA as a woman, something she has never refuted. If I'm right and TERA is female, then she is a very unusual female, one who excels in traditionally male-dominated fields. The I.Q. bell curve for women is less flat, so that means she is very rare.
Trade what you know. The key to winning an argument is framing the debate. The key to winning a fight is choosing the battlefield that best suits your strengths.
It's not all tactics. It's strategy too.