Yahoo62278, I'm actually kind of surprised you're asking the questions you posed in the OP since you've been a member here long enough to know that people are going to do whatever they want as far as leaving negatives and neutrals regardless of how many threads are devoted to discussing trust system etiquette or even what Theymos suggests. Trust isn't moderated and you know that.
The reason for the thread is for learning and growing, not for myself but more for the ignorant or the stubborn. I'm well aware that people have their own opinions and are going to do what they want when they want, but I am also aware of some that are ignorant of how the system works and they can read this discussion and maybe walk away with a better understanding of tags and when or when not to use them.
There should never be a time where someone feels they are too smart to learn. I also think that the stubborn might walk away with a better understanding and maybe change themselves a little. Call it naive, but in general I want to think that most on this forum are trying to do good. I'm not sitting here trying to call out members and say they are fuckheads or anything near that. I even said that even though they may tag too fast, they are correct in their thoughts a very high % of the time.
I am really glad that some of you are taking time out of your day to make a post in here.