If you are still single and an eligible bachelor, oya take microphone and tell us the group you belong to or add your own if e no dey for the list.
My group na I de wait for God's time oo because I no get anything wey de stop me, just that I never jam the right girl wey suit my taste. Although, I for they the
confused brothers group, but somethings wey u mention for there make me run.
You are right, I no actually put the Norther Nigeria into consideration. Their custom and tradition actually makes early marriage easier. However, I no too cherish the pace they are going in terms of population that is not well taken care of... these are the outcome of their marriage system.
For North here wey we they, some people carry this marriage as competition especially our brothers wey no get privilege go school, you go see them they do competition of number of wives they will have.
But even those once wey go school they quick marry because traditionally, you no fit just they say u no they go school and you no marry, na why some guys they marry below 25 years, while our girls they marry very early sometimes at the age of 18 or so, unless those once that go school, na them they fit reach 20-25years range.