if we can't control our emotions, then you will most likely continue your game until you have no balance left which should not be used for gambling, and maybe you will definitely regret it.
Controlling it in theory is very hard to do in actual or else we will be successful or less losses since we can stop gamblin when we loss part of of our bank and same when we need to take profit. Gamblers usually failed to do this because our emotions keeps us for not doing it because are greedy in nature.
At the same time, Emotion is makes gambling exciting and fun if our purpose of gambling is for entertainment. Habing no emotion on gambling doesn’t feel anything even when you win. Your’re right that we need to balance everything to become successful and happy at the same time.
We should not be too much attached to gambling that makes us bet more in loss circumstances also which is why it's advisable to control emotions not evade them because you feel happy and sad for profits and loss respectively so these are emotional feelings for us that can't be avoided.
Yes you are right, if too tied to gambling, emotional it will be easily provoked by the situation, then the pentiing keeps emotions so that it is calmer and not too deep with feelings, even though I know that sadness is a natural thing, but try not to drag on or excessive .
It's true that controlling emotions is very difficult, but it's not impossible for you to reach the point where you can get mature emotional control, of course this requires long training in the journey, it's impossible to happen if only once or twice then you can control it, you need to try many times to get to that point, and I believe everyone can achieve it if you really want it.
Gambling is actually simple and you won't consider this difficult if you are already in that position.
Even though I think I can control my gambling, sometimes I also get out of control, and that is a natural thing, but on average I am able to control my emotions in gambling.
The biggest problem is that you do get moments where you have outbursts as in these moment you go crazy and will bet crazy. Similar as you, most of the times I can control my emotions but sometimes everything is going bad and that are the most tricky moments as in those moment you can loose your whole bankroll. I limit myself by having low amounts on the casinos just to avoid loosing too much money when I get out of control.
It is important to notice those outbursts are short lived, so if the amount we have at the casino at the time is on the low side then the damage that we can make to our finances when we are in that out of control state is limited.
So it is key to keep a low casino balance with enough money for a few sessions, and while it would be optimal for ourselves to never lose control, in the case it happened we will still limit significantly the amount of money we could lose during those moments.
Indeed, the explosion is short -lived if our balance continues to thin out, different when we experience a successive victory, the explosion usually has a slight longer before consciousness.
Occasionally in addition to limiting the balance on your casino to keep the explosion that occurs, maybe you need to add time limits to play gambling, I think this can also be made an option for self -control so as not to drag on gambling, and by limiting time in gambling so as not to become excessive addict.