How do you deal with the situation where people who you are close to like family and friends are constantly demanding for one kind of financial assistance or the other. It is not possible to help everyone, so how do you handle it and make sure that giving and trying to help people do not turn into a problem for you.
Learn this first lesson from the school of thought, don't borrow people money you cannot afford to loose, instead of borrowing them, try to give then the little you could afford to help them, lending people money will just compound some people's problem because they will never have enough to use and will not as well be grateful that you lend them money later, only few managed to make refundment of the money they once borrowed from others.
How about people who borrow money from you and never return it or even show any effort to make payment back to you, how did you go about the situation?
I don't usually borrow people money, when am being asked to lend them, i only give out what i can afford to freely help them with it, i chose to use this kind of method after several encounters on being disappointed by people especially those so close to me.