First of all, you're not wasting our time. We are here in Bitcointalk to help each other. Anyone can tell their concerns here for free no matter how much is your concern, our fellow members here are always willing to assist or fix a problem at their best. However, just like what other said, there's no way to retrieve Bitcoin once it was transferred to a non-custodial wallet because only the
hacker are in control with it. For better security in the future, you should always keep your Bitcoin in a trusted wallet where you own the private key.