Last time I let a wallet choose the fee.
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2 Fucking weeks so far!
This is why I switched to a wallet with RBF feature (Electrum). Some would let you boost up the fee with CPFP provided you have sufficient unspent output.
Sparrow has RBF, I've just been lazy and said fuck it.
Full control over fees
This wallet gives you full control over fees. This means that this wallet allows changing the fees after funds are sent using RBF or CPFP. This wallet also provides fee suggestions based on current network conditions so that your transactions are confirmed in a timely manner without paying more than you have to.
Its no rush I just don't like baby sitting shit.