There are many factor that determine ones success.
1) work smart
2) always have that mindset that you will make it and work on it.
3) consistency
4) chose your friend don't let friend chose you. Because a bad friend is a bad influence.
5) always make good use of your time, time na money.
6)Don't always think there is time.
7) don't always ague about what you don't know.

try new things. Don't always use because the last thing you do did not favour you and say you will not try again.
There are many to emphasise on but I choose these few.
Hmm! So you mean you understood all these concept, and yet you go about complaining people no dey carry "Newbies" along? Or abi you forgot say you are just 16 days old on the forum, and as such merit should have been the last thing to even be on your mind sef, because you still have a whole lot of things to learn and a long way to go on this forum. So abeg, as a brother wey I be, I go only advise you to just take an jejeli and whiyoli, and flow with the forum as time goes on. And secondly, please don't be tired of reading, because it is in reading more, we learn to know more.