Most people, seeing such prospects, will simply spit on all these alternatives and calmly pay using the usual payment methods, using a bank card.
I prefer paying with a debit card, than doing all sorts of jumps across exchanges trying to clean what's clean already. I do have noticed what you're saying about certain services, though, and I admit it's annoying. Most often, they happen to accept lightning or there exist alternatives. Or debit card is acceptable, which as said is better sometimes than paying with bitcoin.
Thank you for confirming my initial warning that toxic coins are created by using Whirlpool with Sparrow.
Your initial warning was that Whirlpool coinjoins create toxic coins, whereas it's the individual themselves that does it.